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|Changing Your Language to Change Your Life |
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Dieter Pauwels shares a few ways that you can incorporate more positive thinking in your life, starting with your choices. Being positive really is a learned, practiced skill and you can choose it. So my friend who is worried about getting a job after college really can choose to see the good in his life. He will come away with a great education, put himself in the best possible position to get a job and he has had enriching experiences that may help him with employment in the future. However, it's his choice to see it this way.
Pauwels's also talks about building positive language, exchanging "can't" with, "I'm still working on this," or "I won't" with, "I'm not interested in this at this time." When you change your language, you change your intention. You go from seeing the negative to the possibilities.
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"You're the steward of your own life and are solely responsible for the results and experiences you create. Taking ownership and responsibility for your own life is a freedom and tremendous privilege."
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